Monday, April 30, 2012

Leap of Faith

I recently wrote a letter to a friend who is making the decision to follow his dream, or stick to corporate America, and I thought it would be something to include in my blog.  We all reach a crossroad in life, and sometimes they call for a leap of faith.  Another friend of mine, who is going through similar situation, compared her experience to the Indiana Jones scene where he has to step out on the invisible bridge.  What a great metaphor and imagery for facing the "unknown", I was happy to be able to post the video below:



  • Letter to a Friend:

    I'm not sure if we knew each other when Dustin and I took time off of our "regular life" to tour with his band. It was definitely a big decision, he was at the crossroads of following his dream vs. corporate stability also. In the end, we both agreed that if the opportunity was there to follow a dream, we should take it and there may be regret later down the road if we passed it up.

    Things panned out in an interesting way--we traveled the country, even into Canada and Jamaica, and definitely made some amazing memories. We lost money, but looking back--no amount of money could compare to the experiences we had. The band had a quick opportunity for success, but the lead singer quit and closed that door for everyone. Ironically, we decided before that time that this wasn't the life we wanted to lead: late nights, travel, bad food, wild company, tolling on marriage...but through the experience itself, we learned more about ourselves individually and as a couple. And again, you can't put a price on that.

    As some of your other friends mentioned, we have very few opportunities in life to really pursue our dreams, but when they come knocking--it's for a reason. There definitely is a leap of faith involved, and there's no sure way to know what the outcome will be. But it's truly the journey that matters, and that journey can be one of the most influential times in one's life. You just have to make the decision to take it.

    Dustin and I are now embarking on a new journey--parenthood. When you mentioned the "unknown", it resonated quickly with me. Pregnancy, being a mom--all of this is the "unknown" for us. It can be scary at times, but I have chosen to stay focused, mindful, and appreciative of each small step so things don't seem overwhelming. I was just telling Dustin last night that even though pregnancy isn't easy, or the preparation for parenthood, it already feels so rich and rewarding. There is no way we would ever turn back from this incredible decision, no matter how hard or scary things get.

    I believe in you, and know that if you choose to follow your dreams--you will open new and amazing doors for yourself and your future. Anytime we are able to honor ourselves and where we are in life, there is little room for regret. I know how passionate you are about your dream, and it seems like you are at the crossroads of honoring that passion. My vote is "do it!".

    Much love,
    J.

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